Multiple Orgasms

This page is all about ejaculation control exercises and multiple orgasms. In Tantra we aim to hold off ejaculation for as long as we can and experience multiple orgasms. You'll learn how to get close to ejaculation, then stop and move up close again. It requires a fair amount of joyful practice where you'll cum many times and watch carefully how it all happens.

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same, even though it may appear so. Orgasm comes first, ejaculation follows, but not always. It can happen without ejaculation. With experience you will be able to tell the difference and control it. You need frequent practice to become good at it. Variety will keep your interest.

Do some of these games in the bath tub. This can be enhanced by wearing a thin, oversize T-shirt and loose fitting lightweight pants that will cling to your body when wet. It will give you a feeling like being touched all over.

Stop & Go

Get some lube, and begin to masturbate in your favorite position, but right before you ejaculate, STOP.

Put your hands down, or put them behind your head, so you don't ejaculate. Let your erection get just a little soft, and then start again, and once again, right before you ejaculate, STOP.

If you do this at least four times, not only will it prolong your session greatly, it will make you ejaculate a lot more semen.

Ring of Fire

You may need lubricant for this. Make a ring with your thumb and index finger. Stroke only the glans, your penis head. Do not touch any of the sensitive area behind the glans. Do this for as long as you can stand it. Then, with a firm grip, bring your thumb/finger "ring" over the top part of the shaft and stroke. The release/relief is almost as good as orgasm, even though you haven't ejaculated yet. After the initial feeling of relief, repeat the process. Try to hold out as long as you can each time. You will finally get to the point where you will just want to ejaculate.

Shafting it

Sit down and get an erection. Fully retract your foreskin to reveal the glans. Use your fingers to move the skin on the base of the penis up and down, as if you were masturbating in the normal way but do not touch the glans (penis head) or move the skin over the glans. Keep the foreskin retracted at all times. You will notice it is very difficult to get an orgasm this way, since there is no glans stimulation. It's meant to be like this; don't worry. You can use your left hand to stimulate other parts of your body, like your nipples, if that excites you more.

After 5-10 minutes, you will get close to orgasm. Do not start moving the foreskin over the glans; keep moving the skin on the base only. When you reach the "point of no return," slow down. Keep moving very slowly during this moment. If you do this right, you can "surf" on this wave for a while, a mind-blowing feeling! Afterwards, ejaculation follows as usual. Roll your foreskin back over the glans and clean up.

You may find you can surf the wave for way longer than just 5 - 10 minutes. Each time you feel like you're getting close just slow down, and then start up again gradually. Always grip your shaft tight and feel each and every ridge and vein. Soon your entire penis becomes red and is literally throbbing! When you're ready to let it spurt, just go to the head and let it rip.

Timed Release

After you have masturbated for a good, leisurely long time (with many stops and starts), set a digital alarm clock to go off in 10 minutes. Make sure it only displays minutes, not seconds. Don't let yourself ejaculate until the timer goes off. Refrain from looking at the clock for the first few minutes. As the ejaculation time draws near, occasionally glance at it, but don't stare. When there's one minute left on the clock, you'll go crazy with anticipation because the alarm could ring at any second. Try to hover right on the edge so you can orgasm immediately when the alarm rings. It will seem like an eternity. You'll cum very deliciously!