Gateway to the Here and Now

Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm, but it is virtually untouched for most men. As you master the tantric practice and higher energy movement, you begin to view your Lingam (penis, joystick) as an instrument of deeper understanding and deeper love connection with your partner.

Your sensitivity and awareness is profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking. You step into an expanded state of consciousness, which allows you to achieve "multiple" and "full-body orgasms".

Tantric Orgasms

In the Tantric tradition, orgasm has a different value than in other cultural approaches to sexuality. Eliminating the striving toward orgasm enhances the pleasure to be derived from all aspects of sexual experience.

Some practitioners of Tantric sex aim to delay orgasm during sexual intercourse by remaining for long periods of time at the pre-orgasmic state. According to some advocates of Tantric sex, such as Rajneesh, practising Tantric sex without orgasm will eventually lead to orgasmic feelings spreading out to all of conscious experience.

Some current advocates of Tantric sex claim that in Western culture sexuality is put in the service of orgasm in a way that reduces the ability to have intense pleasure during each moment of sexual experience.

Multiple Orgasms

You can become "multi-orgasmic" without losing a drop of semen, or at least for a long time. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that we can learn to separate.

The benefits of multiple and "full-body" orgasms are many. Full-body orgasm frees him from stress and tensions, heals his prostate gland, opens his heart and connects him deeper to his lover and himself.

It also facilitates the man experiencing multiple orgasms as well. "Multiple" doesn't mean multiple ejaculations. When a man learns to move his Kundalini energy through his body he can have orgasms and not ejaculate. We call this a "dry orgasm" or nonejaculatory orgasm.

Ejaculation Control

Why is ejaculation control so important? Once a man has reached the point in his sexual development where he begins to understand that just "getting off" isn't satisfying him or his partner, he craves for more. This is a natural desire. In his heart he knows there is more, but often doesn't know how to achieve these higher pleasures.

Tantra teaches that for a man to achieve the highest ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he needs to learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy (Kundalini) up his spine to the higher centres of his brain. When he masters the ability to move his Kundalini energy up his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels that people only dream of.

The goal of this tantric experience is not merely ejaculation but rather a fuller experience of the journey leading up to that eventual orgasm (i.e. "the Finale"). Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery thereby prolonging and possibly increasing the sexual encounters that they do have. Ejaculation is not the immediate or overall goal of this exercise, although it can be viewed as a pleasant and welcome side effect.

As a man learns to master the movement of his sexual energy in his body, he can as a result control his ejaculation. At this point he is free to make love without feeling the pressure to ejaculate.